Sex Too Soon (Written by a Single Man)

on Jan 23 in Front Page, Single Men Say by No Ring On This Thing

Here’s the thing…a guys main goal is to have sex with you as quickly as possible. This may upset your sense of romance, but it is his primal instinct to “spread his seed.”  I know it sucks to hear for most women, but it’s a fact.  If you put aside your judgments of his caveman tendencies and are really honest with yourself…you want to have sex with him too.  So why not let him rip off your clothes and have at it, right?  Friends, not so fast !  When a woman gives in to her carnal desires too soon, she will find herself wondering why he never called her back.  Was the sex bad?  Is he dating someone else?  Does he like dudes?

Actually, it’s more than likely…none of the above.  Unfortunately, the age-old rule of waiting for sex actually will increase your chances of getting a relationship to last past the morning after.  Here’s how this whole thing works.

In order for a man to actually succeed in his goal to bang you, he needs to crack the code and disable the force field around you to penetrate your Starship.  Therefore, he needs to learn as much as he can about who you are, what makes you tick, your likes and dislikes. Since there is no Operating Manual for you, this mission can be as long as you want it to be.  This is where he shows his romantic side and will stop at nothing at winning your heart.  But a funny thing can happen on this journey, the more he gets to know about you the more he may realize,  “Hey, I actually like this chick.  She is kind of cool.”  See how that happens?

Because unfortunately, the moment a dude “busts a nut,” there is something that clicks in the brain and the quest for knowledge is done.  A woman will never have the advantage of being on the receiving end of that drive to get to know her better.  It is in her best interest to maximize that time before that happens.  Unfortunately, if she hasn’t built enough of a foundation, that relationship will crumble before it ever got the chance to grow. If he doesn’t like you that much as a person, the conquest is done, the notch to his belt is added, and he will disappear pretty quickly.

If you want to take that chance and just have fun in the sack…I say go for it!  Fun is not gender based.  But if you are looking for something more, then hold off.

By PATRUCHIO BONAVENTURA